Production Assistants: Katreng Candelaria, 20, Ruphy Anne Bautista, 18, Ronin Bautista, 19, Dianne Faye Magbanua, 19, Nicai de Guzman, 19
What do you do if you can’t get along with your parents?
This is the question that the Manila Bureau asked several teenagers. We also asked them for practical tips in handling such a predicament.
A number of respondents said that letting go of your pride and humbling yourself are vital in resolving issues between parents and children. “We should try to understand where our parents are coming from. They might have had a similar experience from the past so they really know what they’re talking about,” says Denise, 20. “Although you may experience a generation gap and a difference in perspectives, don’t underestimate your parents’ ability to understand you and what you’re going through,” adds Jacquelyn, 21.
Speaking up and explaining your side is also important. Aldy, 19 shares, “Take the time to patiently tell your parents why you make certain decisions and take such actions.” Ryan, 20, agrees but cautions, “Make sure that both parties are no longer angry before you start a dialogue with them. It may take some time for you and your parents to cool down.”
For Marc, 19, acceptance is the key to getting along with parents. “Accept them for who they are. Don’t try to change them.” Others further expound on this by saying, “Whatever happens, remind yourself that you love your parents. This way, no matter how bad a situation turns out, you can always go back to the love that you have for them.”
"Treat misunderstandings as inspirations to strive to become a better person. This way, your parents will see that you are responsible and mature. You will surely get their respect, too,” advices Ram 17.
One respondent says that there is no shame in seeking help from a professional. “You may want to ask a psychiatrist or a family counseling expert for advice. Since they have training and medical background, they are better-equipped in helping you resolve family issues,” believes Keisha, 19.
What about you, what tips and advice can you give your peers regarding this matter?
Camerapersons: Katreng Candelaria, 20, Ruphy Anne Bautista, 18, Dianne Faye Magbanua, 19 
